the short answer
Adduction is movement that brings a limb in toward the midline of the body, and abduction is movement that carries it away from the midline. Raising a dumbbell out to your side is shoulder abduction, and lowering it back down is adduction. The memory hook is simple: to abduct is to take away, so abduction always moves away from the center line.
This article is general training education, not medical advice. Anatomy and joint mechanics vary from person to person, so treat the examples below as the common pattern rather than a fixed rule.