the short answer
Flexible dieting, often called IIFYM (if it fits your macros), is a nutrition approach where clients hit daily targets for protein, carbohydrates, and fat from any foods rather than following a fixed meal plan. No foods are banned - the priority is the daily macro and calorie total, built mostly from whole foods, with room for the occasional treat.
This article is general nutrition-coaching information, not medical or clinical nutrition advice. Coaches work on habits and targets - refer clients with medical conditions, eating-disorder history, or clinical needs to a registered dietitian or doctor.